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Main - The Officer's Club - So my Grandpa's in the hospital... |
Marzen64 |
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Hoarder Maoh Level: 41 Posts: 26/358 EXP: 453994 Next: 26151 Since: 01-01-12 From: Sanford, NC Last post: 3765 days Last view: 3765 days |
That is indeed a really rough situation...one that nobody ever wants to be in. My wife's mother passed away unexpectedly this past summer, and that was hard enough.
I personally have not been in the exact same situation. Although when my grandfather passed away in 94, it was due to heart failure and they were unable to bring him out of it. It is extremely heart wrenching and even though we don't know each other, I'm saddened to hear it. I wish you and your family the best during this ordeal. ____________________ Sonnanja, ore no inochi wa toreneena! FFXIV: Jinpu Ishikawa RO2: Kougeki Miwashi Emikoku Steam: Ryudof |
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Paragoomba Level: 20 Posts: 19/73 EXP: 41798 Next: 641 Since: 01-03-12 From: in the cool waters of cyberspace Last post: 3645 days Last view: 3628 days |
I read this incredibly heartbreaking article on the New York Times awhile back that reminds me of your situation. I'm not sure if it can bring you comfort, but it made me think a lot about what I would wish for my own parents/grandparents if such a situation ever occurred.
I'm so sorry it has happened this way |
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Koopa Level: 25 Posts: 17/113 EXP: 80509 Next: 9111 Since: 01-01-12 From: Niagara Falls Last post: 3611 days Last view: 3540 days |
My grandmother had several seizures that were making her alzheimers worse and worse, to the point where my mother's sister took her from her home because she really couldn't take care of herself anymore, and put her in an old folks home. She had fallen several times too which didn't help. She ofcourse wasn't completely delirious and knew everyone who visited, its just she thought Reagan was president still and other things like that, and well in the long run she knew that she didn't want to be there.
Her husband, our grandfather had passed away about 15 years ago from cancer, so she was doing alright for herself for awhile without any help other than her daughter who lived about 90 mins away and my mother who lived here in NY (she lived in MA, cape cod) My aunt wasn't really the most caring person but it's not like she didn't help her when she could, so when we went to visit her yknow 6-8 hours away, we took her out to dinner and out to the JFK museum and well just had a good time with her, and she eventually towards the end of our trip she says she doesn't want to live anymore. The next time we came to visit about 6-8 months later she was under morphine, and we were waiting for her to pass away. It was terrible but atleast the pain was over for her. My story isn't exactly the same but, I can kind of relate. My prayers go out to you and your family buddy. |
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Marzen64 |
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I'm sorry to hear about this. |
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HEY HEY HEY STAY OUTTA MAH SHED Level: 64 Posts: 98/1016 EXP: 2170303 Next: 43794 Since: 01-02-12 Last post: 4379 days Last view: 4350 days |
I don't know what to say...
Good luck and good health to you all, I guess... ____________________ I don't give a flying feather |
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