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Main - The Officer's Club - Coping With The Loss of a Loved One |
Trelior |
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Level: 127 Posts: 124/4986 EXP: 23605582 Next: 120984 Since: 01-02-12 Last post: 1259 days Last view: 1259 days |
A week ago, I got a text from my mom saying that my little brother, Joe, had passed away from medical complications he'd been having since August.
His funeral was the other day, but I unfortunately had to miss it because of my work schedule. Knowing that many of us wouldn't be there, compounded with not wanting to deal with the trouble making side of the family, we held a memorial service for him just a few hours ago. He was only 21... He left us too early. Even though I finally have the closure, it still hurts. Have you guys lost any loved ones recently? If so, how did you cope. |
Epele |
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The Sorceress. Boing~ Level: 235 Posts: 171/20774 EXP: 200770270 Next: 1155622 Since: 01-01-12 From: UK Last post: 840 days Last view: 13 hours |
Ouch. That's way too early.
I've only ever lost grandparents in the past. That hurt pretty bad at the time. As for coping.. I just didn't face reality for a while. Every time, I just refused to face reality and shut myself away from it for a week or so. Helped let acceptance slowly sink in. The world could always use more heroes! |
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Hoarder Maoh Level: 41 Posts: 47/358 EXP: 454192 Next: 25953 Since: 01-01-12 From: Sanford, NC Last post: 3769 days Last view: 3769 days |
Ouch....that's harsh, and as Gywall said, way too young.
In July, we unexpectedly lost my wife's mother. She was recovering from having a valve replaced in her heart, which that surgery went very well and her heart was doing well...but her lungs and kidneys failed shortly after and she wasn't able to recover. I was a pretty somber summer, as we kind of kept to ourselves and didn't say much to anyone or go out anywhere, nor did we smile much for a few months. It still brings tears to my wife when we're out and she remembers things her mother liked and such. Sorry Trel. ____________________ Sonnanja, ore no inochi wa toreneena! FFXIV: Jinpu Ishikawa RO2: Kougeki Miwashi Emikoku Steam: Ryudof |
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Roy Koopa My name is Sanger Zonvolt. I am the Sword that cleaves evil! Level: 153 Posts: 58/7703 EXP: 45321767 Next: 1637 Since: 01-04-12 From: Sweden Last post: 1056 days Last view: 1020 days |
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Marzen64 |
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