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| Main - The Officer's Club - Regarding the situation |
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Posts: 164/243 EXP: 212027 Next: 17152 Since: 04-26-16 From: Italy Last post: 2134 days Last view: 2133 days |
I hope you're not getting close to the ones I call "people". That would be a seemingly looking good life, but it will turn out the worst.
I liked you as you were before (although hated some of your wishes like wearing revealing clothes or whatever they're called). I'd rather drag you with me instead of leaving you to live a horrible life. |
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Posts: 2622/3456 EXP: 13271226 Next: 249273 Since: 03-19-13 Last post: 4 days Last view: 4 days |
Posted by Moonlight Capital hey. your notion of a "horrible life" doesn't apply to everybody. at some point you'll need to stop pushing your expectations onto people. same goes for dragging them around with you all while lying to yourself about it being for thier own good. live and let live, yknow? Posted by Moonlight Capital
so, you liked how he was while in time of trouble? what was it you liked then? perhaps how easily you could manipulate him? do you look at yourself in the mirror sometimes? you're doing what you accuse others of doing. forcing your opinions onto somebody easily influenced counts as manipulating. as for what he wishes to do (wearing revealing stuff), what's wrong with it? it's not like you have to do it. he won't just do it in public at random and having hidden tastes for those kind of clothes is not a sin. just because it doesn't work for you, doesn't mean you have to take it as a common notion everybody should abide by. |
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Posts: 166/243 EXP: 212027 Next: 17152 Since: 04-26-16 From: Italy Last post: 2134 days Last view: 2133 days |
It's something I can't explain either... |
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Posts: 167/243 EXP: 212027 Next: 17152 Since: 04-26-16 From: Italy Last post: 2134 days Last view: 2133 days |
Not having Jamie around makes me sad/bored/lazy.
I'm worried about their life more, though. |
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Posts: 349/524 EXP: 624052 Next: 36112 Since: 06-26-17 From: Maryland Last post: 520 days Last view: 242 days |
Posted by Moonlight Capital That doesn't sound manipulative at all  |
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Posts: 3346/4003 EXP: 14116449 Next: 292437 Since: 05-23-16 Last post: 450 days Last view: 449 days |
Posted by Thieppy Wasn't he banned for spamming or something here tho not that anyone would remember anyway that was early 2015 afaik |
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Excessive drama. Level: 74
Posts: 590/1480 EXP: 3521785 Next: 131759 Since: 06-03-14 Last post: 2060 days Last view: 743 days |
yes. That was squid's fault for framing me but i didnt help by making up that stupid dabby mago shit elsewhere after
also. no one liked the stuff i did. The place that was my discord was crap. The board saga was utter crap from the start. I caused certain people major discomfort with my bullshit that it makes me just as bad of a person as say aileen. I know where im going wrong i just dont seem to feel like acting on it permanently ____________________ Good riddance! |
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  Jejfjsiejrjntnyns8fujrtnjs8f7eibrbtudiwie Level: 37
Posts: 219/284 EXP: 328346 Next: 9907 Since: 01-05-12 Last post: 1837 days Last view: 372 days |
Posted by Jamie Mate, I did the whole forum thing like you but worse, Zetaboards incarnations, lots of shitty mybb forums with pirated themes, nulled vBulletin and being range banned by free webhosts for that. Also, the shit I have seen people pull but then somehow manage to stay friends after all, you weren't there in the hayday of xat.com and all the drama and shit that ensued at the MKWii hacking chats. I never had a problem w/you, so be cool. |
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Posts: 168/243 EXP: 212027 Next: 17152 Since: 04-26-16 From: Italy Last post: 2134 days Last view: 2133 days |
You aren't THAT bad, stop making a fool of yourself.
It won't solve anything. |
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Posts: 362/524 EXP: 624052 Next: 36112 Since: 06-26-17 From: Maryland Last post: 520 days Last view: 242 days |
Posted by Jamie I don't mean to say the things that you're doing (making boards, previous online mistakes, etc) don't mean anything, but in the grand scheme of things the stupid things you've done on obscure corners of the internet aren't really going to mean all that much in the long run. Take it from me, SMWCentral still hates me to this day because I used to be way too serious about everything. I know it's hard to do this (and I mean that sincerely), but try not to worry so much. You don't have to force yourself to not care (because that doesn't work), but when you find yourself in silly situations, just try to not be so hard on yourself. If you take babysteps you'll get better. |
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Posts: 2636/3456 EXP: 13271226 Next: 249273 Since: 03-19-13 Last post: 4 days Last view: 4 days |
oh yeah, that. good point.
what Jamie did on public sites was ages ago. people forgive and forget. as for the other stuff and the endless boards.. it matters to you much more than anyone. your past is not traceable. not many see you in a bad light right now, and you've been making effort to move on. now the only catch is that forcing yourself to run away isn't gonna magically work (see how you come back later on) so there's no need to. may want to simply keep in touch with people you like (and bonus if they can help out, be it for advice or other). on that note I'd like to talk to you more often. forgive me for this, but to me your past isn't so much of a big deal. overstressing over it won't solve it either, soo.. I'd rather you hang out and we help you getting stuff sorted. |
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Goddess of the Apocalypse Level: 200
Posts: 11480/14042 EXP: 114169850 Next: 959539 Since: 01-03-12 From: Boston, MA Last post: 469 days Last view: 469 days |
♥11480 ✿4707 ★51 Everyone has some mistakes and clashes in their history; I was (temporarily) banned from I1 and had a few failed message boards, all of which are now so obscure you can't even find them on archive.org. As long as you don't do anything disastrous-- which you haven't-- people are generally willing to forget your mistakes. Especially around here. |
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Posted by Jamie Jamie the reason people kinda get pissed at you is because you always diss yourself. Come on, you aren't that fucking terrible of a person. also Aileen is a fucking creep you don't have to compare yourself to him. You haven't stalked anyone, afaik. |
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Posts: 374/524 EXP: 624052 Next: 36112 Since: 06-26-17 From: Maryland Last post: 520 days Last view: 242 days |
Wait is this Aileen Lumina we're talking about? Or someone else? What even happened? I hate being out of the loop when it comes to events that have occurred here 
In any case, yeah Jamie I think you're being way too hard on yourself. Once again, I've legit been in the same situation you are now so please PM me or something, I'd love to help you out. |
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Posts: 19/20 EXP: 4997 Next: 988 Since: 05-07-16 From: Hyrule Last post: 2349 days Last view: 2347 days |
Yup, fiver and Jamie shittalking me behind my back as always.
If you thought Jamie had improved by now, he just proved to the world that he apparently did not. How so? Because he still can't get over the fact I broke up with him years ago, after which he decided to try to unleash hell onto me, in an attempt to convince all or most of my friends in the communities we share(d) that I'm a manipulative asshole and a grooming pedophile. Which I am not, as he very well knows as he knows my real age, how I look like irl, etc. - we were in a relationship, after all. Now he still tries to twist facts and spread lies about me to ruin my reputation or w/e. He also tried to pull this off on kuribo64.net earlier this year. I am honestly very tired of dealing with this and I would appreciate if the mods would at least not allow people to call other members of the board "creeps" or whatever, as I understand that this is a situation where you might not be able to clearly determine who says the truth and who doesn't. |
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Posts: 11485/14042 EXP: 114169850 Next: 959539 Since: 01-03-12 From: Boston, MA Last post: 469 days Last view: 469 days |
♥11485 ✿4707 ★51 @"fiver", calling people a creep is mean if you're not doing it in an endearing way. @"Everyone", let's not have any more discussion of any situation between |
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Posts: 375/524 EXP: 624052 Next: 36112 Since: 06-26-17 From: Maryland Last post: 520 days Last view: 242 days |
I don't know any of the details about the whole Aileen/Jamie situation, nor will I claim to know any of the negative stuff revolving around Aileen (I've heard stuff but it's better to not form opinions based on one or two people's limited perspectives, especially on small internet boards like these where info doesn't get spread as efficiently), though I do just want to pop in and say that it's probably better if everyone just let bygones be bygones at tis point. In the grand scheme of things, none of you are gonna care about any of this in ten years so there's no sense getting too upset about this stuff now. Not saying this to de-legitimize anyone's feelings, however, this is an obscure corner of the internet, so I think everybody should take things a bit less seriously.
That said, I lack knowledge of this whole situation, so take my opinion with a grain of salt. Sorry Nicolyn |
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Posts: 2637/3456 EXP: 13271226 Next: 249273 Since: 03-19-13 Last post: 4 days Last view: 4 days |
sounds like Jamie's still salty about the whole deal.
I can't really shed light on that old stuff, all parties involved were biased. what I remember is at the time you were 'tricking' Jamie into believeing your alt account was someone else (sister or something), and they agreed to 'date'. I never got the point of the half-assed lie, but Jamie was way eager to fall for it. things got blown out of proportions by folks trying to convince Jamie. by then they had already found out. as things got out of hand, you broke up. had noone butt in, this relationship may have lasted longer. who knows. overall, it's more of an 'salty ex' problem than anything else. |
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Posts: 20/20 EXP: 4997 Next: 988 Since: 05-07-16 From: Hyrule Last post: 2349 days Last view: 2347 days |
Yup, that was pretty, pretty dumb of me. My intentions were much better than my actions, but that was a pretty stupid thing of me to do, and I already apologized for that a few times. Though, Jamie did know the truth, so... idk. Also, I broke up because I couldn't deal with Jamie anymore. Nobody else influenced my decision there, from what I can tell (and recall). |
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