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| Main - The Officer's Club - Regarding the situation |
| Jamie |
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Banned
Excessive drama. Level: 74    
Posts: 591/1480 EXP: 3520743 Next: 132801 Since: 06-03-14 Last post: 2057 days Last view: 741 days |
I request this thread to be deleted. It's going to turn into a cesspit if I say much more. Anyhow, I may stick around Kafuka occasionally/sporadically when I am back for real but I need to focus on real life more. Thanks for the support, anyhow, even if I decided to not properly act on it. I may setup a private thing for a few peeps I want to stay in touch with in future but it won't go much further than that, no need to take something seriously like a small forum/thing that is not intended to grow. I need to stop losing my temper over the past, and learn to move on, though. by the way, I feel adequately confident about my exams, and school has been over since last week. ____________________ Good riddance! |
| Thierry |
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  Level: 108
Posts: 2665/3456 EXP: 13267703 Next: 252796 Since: 03-19-13 Last post: 1 day Last view: 1 day |
IMO this thread is fine. I see no reason to delete it.
focusing more on your life is good. even if only temporarily to regain control of your life, it's a major mental support. while locking yourself out completely isn't good for you, after your numerous losses taking care of yourself is a good course of action. getting your life fixed up bit by bit while keeping in touch is a reasonable approach. a private group through a simple web app accessible from anything would be ideal, not like Discord you couldn't access from the various consoles you used for stealth internet. you don't necessarily need to shut yourself out of kafuka or anything, really. if you just leave the past behind, leave the bad memories and toxic people alone, you needn't force yourself to move on. it's okay to stick around. |
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Level: 110
Posts: 3374/4003 EXP: 14111302 Next: 297584 Since: 05-23-16 Last post: 448 days Last view: 447 days |
Posted by Jamie That would be cool. Only issue is that that "thing" is called your discord that you abandoned. No need to make something else.. |
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Banned
Excessive drama. Level: 74
Posts: 596/1480 EXP: 3520743 Next: 132801 Since: 06-03-14 Last post: 2057 days Last view: 741 days |
Well my dad would forceban me from the phone again if i use discord plus i hate its ux and the unofficial client rule
Oh and another thing i wont be able to set up a private thing, my dad will also forceban for that too So either kafuka or nope ____________________ Good riddance! |
| Moonlight Capital |
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Click here for catgirls Level: 33
Posts: 171/243 EXP: 211950 Next: 17229 Since: 04-26-16 From: Italy Last post: 2132 days Last view: 2131 days |
Why not trying to explain him Discord is totally safe to use?
And what about my site? It's the safest option. |
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Level: 110
Posts: 3382/4003 EXP: 14111302 Next: 297584 Since: 05-23-16 Last post: 448 days Last view: 447 days |
Why is your dad alright with Kafuka but not something for yourself |
| Jamie |
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Banned
Excessive drama. Level: 74
Posts: 599/1480 EXP: 3520743 Next: 132801 Since: 06-03-14 Last post: 2057 days Last view: 741 days |
Because my crap constantly goes up and down and pisses me off a lot ____________________ Good riddance! |
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   internet = mistake Level: 34
Posts: 195/247 EXP: 243416 Next: 10235 Since: 02-15-14 Last post: 1796 days Last view: 1217 days |
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| Jamie |
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Banned
Excessive drama. Level: 74
Posts: 602/1480 EXP: 3520743 Next: 132801 Since: 06-03-14 Last post: 2057 days Last view: 741 days |
no. noone cares about irc in that group of 'friends'. btw, me coming back in any form is actually a maybe, entirely. -.- don't expect me to be back before 2019 anyhow. ____________________ Good riddance! |
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internet = mistake Level: 34
Posts: 196/247 EXP: 243416 Next: 10235 Since: 02-15-14 Last post: 1796 days Last view: 1217 days |
Posted by JamieI care about it. :< And I'm also on IRC more now. ____________________ Yushe#1289Twitter - YouTube - E-mail |
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Banned
Excessive drama. Level: 74
Posts: 603/1480 EXP: 3520743 Next: 132801 Since: 06-03-14 Last post: 2057 days Last view: 741 days |
actually if i explained to dad about kafuka he would go mad. seems he dislikes trans people, and wouldn't want any around me for apparently bad influence, so its pretty much a given that i'll lose everyone ____________________ Good riddance! |
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internet = mistake Level: 34
Posts: 197/247 EXP: 243416 Next: 10235 Since: 02-15-14 Last post: 1796 days Last view: 1217 days |
Posted by JamieThat's a very stupid mind set to have, its like saying he doesn't want you to be around gay people because they are a bad influence. You are you, being around gay or trans people is not going to change who you are but it might make you realize who you are or what you are attracted to. ____________________ Yushe#1289Twitter - YouTube - E-mail |
| Moonlight Capital |
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Click here for catgirls Level: 33
Posts: 174/243 EXP: 211950 Next: 17229 Since: 04-26-16 From: Italy Last post: 2132 days Last view: 2131 days |
...and makes you learn new things, too.
And good job ignoring me. |
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Level: 45
Posts: 394/524 EXP: 623791 Next: 36373 Since: 06-26-17 From: Maryland Last post: 518 days Last view: 240 days |
Seems like a nice fellow 
Yeah being around trans people isn't gonna negatively affect you unless said trans people are saying you should do things that you think aren't right for you (Transitioning, taking certain hormones, etc. I don't really know much about that stuff being a cis white dude and idk what you want personally but you get my point). If he's concerned because he had a bad experience with a trans person in the past and is generalizing as a result then he can fuck off. I've met some trans people who are completely off their rocker and are complete morons but that doesn't mean all trans people are the same. Don't take him seriously, clearly he doesn't have good judgement.
Even if your dad somehow manages to disconnect you completely you're not gonna lose everyone, you'd only be departed from us temporarily (that is assuming you decide to come back when you're able to return, which I'm assuming you will). |
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Level: 108
Posts: 2673/3456 EXP: 13267703 Next: 252796 Since: 03-19-13 Last post: 1 day Last view: 1 day |
Posted by Jamie I'm guessing this is just primitive understanding of the whole transgender deal on his part? his opinion isn't going to change for now, so might as well just not tell him anything. Posted by Jamie the Kafuka Discord is synced with the equivalent IRC channel and vice-versa, so you can actually keep track of the logs. it's more encouraging to use it that way. Posted by Jamie well, if you say so. that's a choice for you to make. but please, avoid stuff like "I won't come back til year XX". it hardly makes any sense to lock yourself out, and I'd be sad to wait years til I can talk to you again. |
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Banned
Excessive drama. Level: 74
Posts: 604/1480 EXP: 3520743 Next: 132801 Since: 06-03-14 Last post: 2057 days Last view: 741 days |
Well yea id say your right about his lack of understanding about that also he hates me being private about internet stuff since about 2017... So i cant keep anything a secret -.- ____________________ Good riddance! |
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Click here for catgirls Level: 33
Posts: 175/243 EXP: 211950 Next: 17229 Since: 04-26-16 From: Italy Last post: 2132 days Last view: 2131 days |
Jamie, why are you ignoring me? |
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are you okay...? BUSTER WOLF Level: 32
Posts: 12/242 EXP: 193111 Next: 13331 Since: 09-08-17 From: depends Last post: 1110 days Last view: 18 days |
Moonlight, you're implying that Jamie is ignoring specifically you. We're all kinda being put on low priority. Just chill and let Jamie sort out his problems. |
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Level: 108
Posts: 2676/3456 EXP: 13267703 Next: 252796 Since: 03-19-13 Last post: 1 day Last view: 1 day |
Posted by Jamie you can put a lid over unnecessary details, though.  |
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Banned
Excessive drama. Level: 74
Posts: 606/1480 EXP: 3520743 Next: 132801 Since: 06-03-14 Last post: 2057 days Last view: 741 days |
yes. But all it took last time was that i made a private board and i ended up banned again. Also moon im ignoring u cus idc about ur site much ____________________ Good riddance! |
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