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Jamie
Posted on 06-22-18 10:27 AM (rev. 8 of 06-22-18 10:55 AM by Jamie) Link | ID: 134220
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OK.
I request this thread to be deleted. It's going to turn into a cesspit if I say much more.


Anyhow, I may stick around Kafuka occasionally/sporadically when I am back for real but I need to focus on real life more. Thanks for the support, anyhow, even if I decided to not properly act on it.

I may setup a private thing for a few peeps I want to stay in touch with in future but it won't go much further than that, no need to take something seriously like a small forum/thing that is not intended to grow.

I need to stop losing my temper over the past, and learn to move on, though.

by the way, I feel adequately confident about my exams, and school has been over since last week.

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Thieppy
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IMO this thread is fine. I see no reason to delete it.

focusing more on your life is good. even if only temporarily to regain control of your life, it's a major mental support.
while locking yourself out completely isn't good for you, after your numerous losses taking care of yourself is a good course of action. getting your life fixed up bit by bit while keeping in touch is a reasonable approach.

a private group through a simple web app accessible from anything would be ideal, not like Discord you couldn't access from the various consoles you used for stealth internet.
you don't necessarily need to shut yourself out of kafuka or anything, really. if you just leave the past behind, leave the bad memories and toxic people alone, you needn't force yourself to move on. it's okay to stick around.


shan
Posted on 06-24-18 04:21 PM (rev. 2 of 06-24-18 04:22 PM by shan) Link | ID: 134313
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Posted by Jamie
I may setup a private thing for a few peeps I want to stay in touch with in future but it won't go much further than that, no need to take something seriously like a small forum/thing that is not intended to grow.

That would be cool. Only issue is that that "thing" is called your discord that you abandoned. No need to make something else..

Jamie
Posted on 06-25-18 03:24 PM Link | ID: 134342
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Well my dad would forceban me from the phone again if i use discord plus i hate its ux and the unofficial client rule

Oh and another thing i wont be able to set up a private thing, my dad will also forceban for that too

So either kafuka or nope

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Posted on 06-25-18 05:44 PM Link | ID: 134345
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Why not trying to explain him Discord is totally safe to use?

And what about my site? It's the safest option.

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Why is your dad alright with Kafuka but not something for yourself

Jamie
Posted on 06-26-18 05:04 AM Link | ID: 134367
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Because my crap constantly goes up and down and pisses me off a lot

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Yushe
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What about IRC? Or are you already using that... >_>

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Jamie
Posted on 06-26-18 06:02 PM (rev. 2 of 06-26-18 06:04 PM by Jamie) Link | ID: 134389
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no. noone cares about irc in that group of 'friends'. btw, me coming back in any form is actually a maybe, entirely. -.- don't expect me to be back before 2019 anyhow.

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Yushe
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Posted by Jamie
no. noone cares about irc in that group of 'friends'.
I care about it. :<
And I'm also on IRC more now.

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Jamie
Posted on 06-26-18 06:08 PM Link | ID: 134391
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actually if i explained to dad about kafuka he would go mad. seems he dislikes trans people, and wouldn't want any around me for apparently bad influence, so its pretty much a given that i'll lose everyone

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Posted by Jamie
actually if i explained to dad about kafuka he would go mad. seems he dislikes trans people, and wouldn't want any around me for apparently bad influence, so its pretty much a given that i'll lose everyone
That's a very stupid mind set to have, its like saying he doesn't want you to be around gay people because they are a bad influence. You are you, being around gay or trans people is not going to change who you are but it might make you realize who you are or what you are attracted to.

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Moonlight Capital
Posted on 06-26-18 07:40 PM (rev. 2 of 06-27-18 04:52 AM by Moonlight Capital) Link | ID: 134395
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...and makes you learn new things, too.

And good job ignoring me.

Decoy Blimp
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actually if i explained to dad about kafuka he would go mad. seems he dislikes trans people, and wouldn't want any around me for apparently bad influence


Seems like a nice fellow :rolleyes:

Yeah being around trans people isn't gonna negatively affect you unless said trans people are saying you should do things that you think aren't right for you (Transitioning, taking certain hormones, etc. I don't really know much about that stuff being a cis white dude and idk what you want personally but you get my point). If he's concerned because he had a bad experience with a trans person in the past and is generalizing as a result then he can fuck off. I've met some trans people who are completely off their rocker and are complete morons but that doesn't mean all trans people are the same. Don't take him seriously, clearly he doesn't have good judgement.


so its pretty much a given that i'll lose everyone


Even if your dad somehow manages to disconnect you completely you're not gonna lose everyone, you'd only be departed from us temporarily (that is assuming you decide to come back when you're able to return, which I'm assuming you will).

Thieppy
Posted on 06-27-18 04:32 PM Link | ID: 134414
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Posted by Jamie
actually if i explained to dad about kafuka he would go mad. seems he dislikes trans people, and wouldn't want any around me for apparently bad influence

I'm guessing this is just primitive understanding of the whole transgender deal on his part?
his opinion isn't going to change for now, so might as well just not tell him anything.

Posted by Jamie
noone cares about irc in that group of 'friends'

the Kafuka Discord is synced with the equivalent IRC channel and vice-versa, so you can actually keep track of the logs. it's more encouraging to use it that way.

Posted by Jamie
me coming back in any form is actually a maybe, entirely. -.- don't expect me to be back before 2019 anyhow.

well, if you say so. that's a choice for you to make.

but please, avoid stuff like "I won't come back til year XX". it hardly makes any sense to lock yourself out, and I'd be sad to wait years til I can talk to you again.


Jamie
Posted on 06-27-18 04:40 PM Link | ID: 134415
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Well yea id say your right about his lack of understanding about that also he hates me being private about internet stuff since about 2017... So i cant keep anything a secret -.-

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Moonlight Capital
Posted on 06-27-18 04:54 PM Link | ID: 134416
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Jamie, why are you ignoring me?

saltypepper
Posted on 06-27-18 06:30 PM Link | ID: 134418
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Moonlight, you're implying that Jamie is ignoring specifically you. We're all kinda being put on low priority. Just chill and let Jamie sort out his problems.


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Thieppy
Posted on 06-28-18 05:39 AM Link | ID: 134440
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Posted by Jamie
So i cant keep anything a secret -.-

you can put a lid over unnecessary details, though. ;-3


Jamie
Posted on 06-28-18 06:49 AM Link | ID: 134442
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yes. But all it took last time was that i made a private board and i ended up banned again. Also moon im ignoring u cus idc about ur site much

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